“You realize it’s all about compatible immune systems right?”

maryrambin:

I am of the mindset you have to attempt not to analyze too much, and life will lead you in the right direction.  To me, too much thinking about relationships =  playing games. I get the fact people should maintain a little mystery.  But if you have to maneuver and strategize, you are not honest or real with him or yourself. After you chose a road and drive down it for a while, when you finally stop for a pee brake, you realize you can’t remember how or why you got there. You were too caught up in your head to read the road signs. 

I hope I communicated that clearly.  Think = bad. Live = good.

Can’t believe that I agree with something Mary said, but yes, this is a good philosophy. I always approach my romantic relationships in this way.