Putting this out there (embarassingly)
I ended a “relationship.”
And the guy called me “fast.”
Not like “fast” in, oh, we’re moving to fast, but “fast” as in, “fast, loose woman.”
As in, I was frustrated that, after the sixth date, I had to make a move.
And it was done over Facebook message, which is so ugh.
But more importantly, if you haven’t had ANY real physical contact, wouldn’t you be frustrated? Why am I suddenly “fast” because I’ve got needs to? I mean, I wasn’t looking for sex (cause I’m definitely not that sort of girl), but come on, what guy wouldn’t just go for a good make-out session? Am I a bad person (bad female) for wanting to get some play?
NO! You are not a bad person/ bad female. You are who you are. Wanting ass/ a makeout sesh/ or whatever is not exclusive to the male sex. Methinks he may have been searching for a reason to break things off and went the lowest of low routes and not only called you “fast” (which is dick by the way) and did it by Facebook (which is even dicker). After 6 dates, your making a move is perfectly reasonable, hell after 6 hours/days you making a move is perfectly reasonable if that’s what you were wanting. Do what you feel and do what you want, do not worry what some asshole deems to be inappropriate. A man not secure in his own sexuality is the type of man who will be turned off by a sexually assertive woman.
